Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts

Monday, April 27, 2015

{benefits of a fit pregnancy part 2 - the actual benefits}

***First off, I am obviously not a doctor and each pregnancy for every woman is different. If you have a high risk pregnancy you will obviously have to be careful what you do and what I talk about might not be possible for you. Everything I am writing about works for me and my doctor. So always check with your doctor before you do anything crazy. Not that anything I am about to suggest is crazy...unless it's crazy to suggest that pregnant woman can do amazing and hard fitness workouts...because we can!***

In this post I want to talk about the benefits of being fit during your pregnancy that I personally have seen myself. (This is my second pregnancy. I have been far better with my fitness routine and diet this pregnancy. These are the differences I have noticed. I am no expert on anything really so take it for what's it worth.)

Here they are:

1. I am less psychotic. Meaning, that it seemed that the more I exercised and kept my diet in check the less crazy my hormones made me.

2. I have more energy and sleep better.

3.  I have good self-esteem and confidence in my preggo appearance. 

4. I have no new stretch marks. (This one might be a stretch but read on to see my take on fitness and your skin.)

5. Fairly quick labor and deliveries .


Hormones are real but with exercise and proper diets we don't have to ride their roller coaster!



Oh hormones. Yes they are a real thing, much to the dismay of our male counterparts. And pregnancy seems to wreck havoc on them. It's understandable that pregnant women have been labeled crazy from time to time. I had a few melt downs my first pregnancy. Thankfully only one in a public setting...poor Garett had to walk me through the mall while I was sobbing and going on about something ridiculous.

One of the benefits of exercise is the release of endorphins! These are the wonderful little "feel-good" chemicals that make us feel happy. They can help us pregnant women level out the craziness of the hormonal roller coaster.

With my better diet and increased fitness levels I am happy to say that I have not had any major meltdowns this pregnancy! No random bursts of crying or wave of emotions. I have felt pretty in control. When I do begin to feel exceptionally moody or crabby I know that's my cue to go to the gym or maybe re-examine my diet.

During pregnancy we have a whole flood of hormones, but after birth hormones levels drop drastically which in many cases leads to postpartum depression. There are many things that can trigger this depression but hormones are a leading contender. Since exercise is a known releaser of endorphins, it is often a suggested way to help fight depression. Read this article from WedMD to further understand exercising and depression.

My thought is if I can stay active and fit during my pregnancy and create that habit now, then hopefully after the baby is born, I can use my established healthy diet and exercise habits to help my body fight the dramatic hormonal changes that come post-birth. It's worth a shot in my opinion.


Increased energy levels and better sleep are side effects of exercising!


One thing I remember incredibly well from my first pregnancy was the amount of time I spent sleeping. I'd come home from work take a nap, wake up to eat dinner, then go back to bed for the night. I felt exhausted all the time. Because of my experience my first pregnancy I was kind of dreading this second pregnancy a) because I have a 2 year old who most definitely would not be cool with me sleeping all day and b) because Garett was going to be gone for an internship for 3 months of my pregnancy leaving me to manage our toddler, businesses and household alone. 

I was so nervous that I wouldn't be able to handle it. I thought I'd be a walking zombie for those 3 months. But that wasn't the case. 

With exercise I found that I had more energy. My body was invigorated. I didn't feel the sheer exhaustion I felt constantly with my first pregnancy. I was exhausted from the workouts yes, but that is a better kind of tired! And those workouts helped me sleep better at night so I woke up feeling well rested most days. 

Working out in the morning (around 10 AM is my favorite) is what gives me the most energy for the rest of the day. However, my spin class that I LOVE, is Tuesday and Thursday nights at 6 PM. Those are the nights I noticed that I sleep the absolute best. So I think it was a good mix switching up the times of my workouts. Find what works for your body and your schedule. 

 When you feel healthy your confidence and self-esteem sky rocket!


It's not easy being pregnant. Even though you know you are doing something so beautiful it's kind of hard to watch our bodies expand and grow to a bigger size. For me, I have spent my whole late teen/adult life working to get that number on the scale to go down. With pregnancy you have to all of the sudden flip a switch and magically be okay with the number going up. Logically, yes, I know I am suppose to gain weight with this baby growing business but that doesn't mean emotionally I am ready to accept that. Any other pregnant ladies get what I'm talking about?

But just because we have to gain weight doesn't mean we have to let it get out of control or destroy our confidence and self-image. 

Working out and eating right will be rewarded by our bodies, even if they are expanding. This pregnancy has been proof of that for me. I still have gained a healthy amount of weight but I am 12 pounds lighter and 2 pant sizes smaller this pregnancy! My old maternity pants are too baggy on me this time around! I am more toned and muscular now than I was when I wasn't pregnant. All of those results have boosted my confidence immeasurably!

I also have to say the look you get from your fellow gym mates when you just busted out a great workout while 8 months pregnant is amazing! I can't lie, you kind of feel like a super star!



My thoughts on stretch marks.


So much has been said on the topic of stretch marks. I'm just going to add more and it's probably nothing new.

Here's what doctors seem to know about stretch marks:

- they happen when the skin is pulled by rapid growth or stretching
genetics play a big role in whether someone gets them or not
- hormones also can affect your skin and cause the collagen and elastin fibers to tear more readily when stretched
- you can't prevent them

While I agree that you can't prevent all stretch marks I think you can prevent how many you get. If they are primarily caused by rapid growth and stretching and we can control our weight gain and growth then maybe there is something we can do.

Again, I am not a doctor and my frame of reference comes from articles I have researched and my own experience. My thought is why not try everything in my power to prevent stretch marks. If it doesn't work it doesn't work. No harm done really.

Please don't get me wrong. I am not shaming stretch marks! Not at all! I have them pretty prominently on my "girls" from my first pregnancy. My stomach managed to only get a few faint ones that have disappeared. Before any pregnancies I had faint stretch marks from my growth spurts as a teenager. Even my 6'6" husband as faint stretch marks from his growth spurts. Most people have them. There is nothing wrong with them. 

But I don't want more and I don't think that's bad. If I get more then I get more, but so far this pregnancy I haven't gotten any. 

Here's my thoughts and what I have done:

1. DRINK WATER! Skin is our largest organ and it needs water to function properly. Dehydrated skin is tight, flaky, itchy, more prone to wrinkles and is less resilient (more susceptible tearing of the fibers). Skin's elasticity is affected by water.  I drink so much water. I always have and I always will. It's my beverage of choice. Start drinking now; pregnant or not. Get into the habit of carrying around a water bottle that you can refill and make a goal to refill it "x" amount of times every day! You'll have to pee a lot but that's okay! If it helps your skin it's worth it!

If you have a hard time with drinking just water follow my husband's example. Garett loved pop (honestly still does). It was like pulling teeth to get him to drink water. So we started him on some water mix-ins (like Crystal Light or Mio). It still gave him some sweetness without all the sugar and it had him drinking more water. Eventually he started just drinking water! Try it!

2. Moisturize! My first pregnancy I bought a big bottle of cocoa butter lotion from Wal-Mart for $3 I used it religiously on my belly. Not so much on my chest; which may or may not have contributed to getting a lot of stretch marks on my chest and nearly none on my belly. 

This pregnancy I slather that lotion on 2-3 times a day. I make it a habit to put some on my belly and chest after every shower and morning and night. 

Some say that cocoa butter doesn't help; that it's a myth. They may be right. But it was only a $3 bottle, it smells delicious, I never, ever had itchy skin in either pregnancy and if it does help with reducing stretch marks that's awesome.

Click here to see the lotion. So worth $3 in my opinion.


3. Control your weight gain and keep your core muscles engaged!! I think this one is the most important and relevant. Like I said before they say the primary cause of stretch marks is rapid stretching of the skin. 

Obviously our bellies are going to expand. That's inevitable. But we can control any excess weight gain which would cause our bellies to expand further and faster; likely causing stretch marks. The slower we grow the more time our skin has to adapt to the growth.  

To help hold "it" all in we use our core muscles. While these are definitely weakened and separate during pregnancy it is still beneficial to work them and maintain a strong core. I posted a picture of me at 36 weeks with each baby. You can see the difference! I really focused on core muscle exercising this pregnancy and I believe it has paid off big time. There are many more benefits of maintaining a string core that I will discuss later!


A fit pregnancy has shown to be tied to quicker labor and deliveries.


The experts have a lot to say about this relation. Below are a couple of links to great articles:

http://babyfit.sparkpeople.com/articles.asp?id=42

Here is an excerpt from a LONG article haha. Read the full article here.


"You may also want to get involved in some regular aerobic exercise that pushes your heart and lungs to perform at their peak level. Aerobic exercise during pregnancy provides many benefits. It can build stamina, make you more comfortable, alleviate aches and pains, and relieve stress.

Aerobic exercise may even make your labor shorter and less painful. An American study published recently in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology reported that women who continued running or aerobic dancing during pregnancy enjoyed labors about 30 percent shorter than women who stopped exercising. Women who maintained a regular exercise program also required less labor stimulation and fewer epidurals, episiotomies, and cesarean deliveries. An Italian study in the same journal examined women having their second or third babies who pedaled on stationary bicycles three times a week for 30 minutes beginning around the fifth month of pregnancy. The bicyclists maintained higher endorphin levels during labor. Accordingly, they reported less pain than a matching group of sedentary women.

Even if regular exercise can’t guarantee you a shorter or easier labor, it undoubtedly can help you to cope better with whatever labor has in store for you. Going into labor physically fit also means you will recover more quickly afterward."

When you exercise regularly you can learn to push your endurance levels, deal with pain and increase your body's capacities to go the extra mile. Trust me, you need that "extra mile" when you give birth. It's the moments that you have to dig a little deeper (ex: that last few reps in your set or the last 10 minutes of a bike ride) that you truly prepare yourself physically and more importantly, mentally, for the birth of your child.


*UPDATE
Now that I have delivered my baby I can say that my fitness level helped with my delivery so much! Click here to read my son, Camden's, birth story to see how easy and fast my delivery was!

***Part 3 (because everything is better in trilogies) will be what to actually do to have a fit pregnancy. I will talk about exercises and healthy foods that will help you achieve a fit pregnancy. I'll include actual routines I do and some of my favorite routines from Pinterest*** 

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

{benefits of a fit pregnancy part 1 - getting motivated & being accountable}

***First off, I am obviously not a doctor and each pregnancy for every woman is different. If you have a high risk pregnancy you will obviously have to be careful what you do and what I talk about might not be possible for you. Everything I am writing about works for me and my doctor. So always check with your doctor before you do anything crazy. Not that anything I am about to suggest is crazy...unless it's crazy to suggest that pregnant woman can do amazing and hard fitness workouts...because we can!***

Now that I have done my disclaimer let me tell you the first thing my amazing doctor told me: Pregnancy is not a disease. Women have been popping out babies since Eve and in much less cushy circumstances. So go on doing what you are doing.

I always pictured frontier women. Milking cows, chopping wood, hauling laundry down to the river to wash on the washing board all had to be done even if they were pregnant. I bet they wish they could have had Netflix and a Lazy-Boy. We have it pretty good these days.

We pregnant women are not fragile. I think that we sometimes use pregnancy as an excuse to be lazy. (I say that only because I have done it and I'm being totally honest!) I pulled the "But I'm pregnant" card many times in my first pregnancy. I have tried to not use it as much this pregnancy. Switching my mentality from "but I'm pregnant" to a stronger, more empowering mentality of "I'm pregnant, so what?" I think has resulted in me being 12 pounds lighter this pregnancy. 

I don't think anyone would argue that there are benefits to being active during pregnancy. Here is an article on 7 benefits of a exercising during pregnancy!

I made a goal this pregnancy to do better when it came to fitness. It has been hard at times but it is so worth it!!! We don't have to feel like this...




How to "JUST DO IT" and Hold Yourself To It!


Making goals is easy. Achieving those goals is what is hard. So how do you actually achieve the fitness goals you make? Especially when your pregnant body is saying "just take a nap" and the common adage of "it's okay, you're eating for two" is basically what everyone says to you every time you sit down to eat.

1. Find your motivation and find a way to keep that motivation fore front in your mind. (This really pertains to anybody trying to achieve a goal; pregnant or not.)

Take me for example. This summer seems to be the summer of every family function known to man. We have 2 weddings, 1 family reunion and 1 family vacation. The family vacation happens to be in California where we will spend a couple days at the beach. 

My baby comes in mid-May and family functions start the end of June; the beach is happening end of July. Awesome. So my motivation is to try and be wedding photo-ready 1 month post-birth and beach-ready 2 months post-birth.

That's my motivation as shallow as it may seem. But I say hey, if your motivation is to feel comfortable in a swimsuit after birth that's 100% okay! It doesn't matter what your motivation is to stay healthy/fit during pregnancy, just find it. 

Now to keep that motivation and to remember it when temptation comes knocking is the next part. I am a visual person. I like visual reminders. So I created a Pinterest board (surprise, surprise). I named it "Back Away From the Cookie - Inspiration". Check it out here. 

On it I have pinned inspirational fitness quotes, pictures of fit women or even outfits/swim suits that I would love to see myself in this summer! 

A Pinterest board is what works for me because I have access to it everywhere I go thanks to smart phones : ) But there are so many ways you can remind yourself of your goals. Here are a few ideas:

- taping inspiring images or quotes to your mirror and/or fridge

- have your exercise clothing/gear out and ready so you see it everyday (ex: leave your running shoes on the inside of your door; they can't inspire you if they are lost in the shoe bucket in the garage!)

- always have a set of workout clothing and gear in your car

- have a "pounds down" visual (click here for a cute idea) **maybe not a great thing to do when pregnant because you aren't trying to lose weight during that time : )

- or you can get this sweet pillow and have it on your bed, couch or chair to remind you ; )




I look at my Pinterest board as my hubby drives us to the gym, or on some days, as I'm lying on the couch looking for motivation to go to the gym. I read the empowering quotes and often recite them to myself when I want to quit in the middle of a rep or when my legs are shaking in spin class. I look at the healthy, toned muscles of amazing women when I want that bag of chips so bad it consumes my mind!

Those words and images in my mind have helped me so much and remind me why I am there at the gym putting myself through torturous routines and why I can't eat 3 freezer burritos at 11:00 pm! Here are a few of the things I have pinned that help me!








2. Find a way to be accountable for your fitness choices. 

So now that you have your motivation and inspiration for yourself and a way to remind yourself of that how will you hold yourself accountable? 

One of the best ways I know how to keep myself on the straight and narrow is to find a buddy. Mine is my husband. I have other workout buddies but my husband is basically with me 24/7 so he can "monitor" me a lot haha. 

And you want someone who can be 100% honest with you! Someone that isn't afraid to slap your hand as you reach for your third cupcake. Seriously. Garett has many times talked me down from some sweet tooth craving of mine and convinced me that a green smoothie might be better. (One of the best things we ever bought is a Blendtec blender!)

Find a buddy or some system (MyFitness Pal is great) that can help hold you to your goals!

Maybe a reward system is a good way for you to stay true to your goals! Set up realistic milestones along your fitness path (ex: first 5 pounds lost or first time you are able to complete a certain amount of reps with a certain weight) and have a reward for when you reach that milestone. Reinforce that good behavior : ) But maybe try not to let it be food related. Here are some cool ideas for rewards:

- pedicure or manicure
- massage
- buy a new purse or accessory
- buy a new outfit
- buy a new workout outfit to rock your hot self at the gym with (my sister sells fun workout tank tops here)
- treat yourself to a fun experience (ex: concert, new movie, or if you are really enjoying this fitness thing, a big race!)

If you have great tips and ways to stay motivated and accountable in pursuit of fitness goals please share below! 


***Part 2 will talk more specifically about the benefits of fitness during pregnancy. Trust me the benefits are worth the hard work!*** 





Friday, March 23, 2012

{gettin' poochy}

I'm fattening up. Or as GGma would say "gettin' poochy". Thank goodness I'm only growing in the tummy area. I did have to come to terms with reality and buy watermelon smuggling bottoms. I bought some maternity shorts at Ross last week because all of my shorts are in Spokane. Man are they comfy! And it is nice to not have to worry about a down zipper : ) Then this week the clothing store Shade was having a store closing sale and everything was 60% off. They even had a maternity section. So I got two pairs of pant/crops (I have been living in these since I got them!), four shirts and a dress for $60. Not too shabby. I just took this picture today so it's the up-to-date photo. I'm almost 27 weeks here. The pants and striped shirt I'm wearing are from Shade.

So far pregnancy is awesome. Maybe I've been lucky. But I'm pretty much enjoying every minute of it. Andersen is super active now. I have been able to feel him moving around for awhile now but this last Tuesday Garett was finally able to feel him! I woke up at 3:30am because my muscles were sore and so I put my hands on my belly, hoping to magically make the soreness go away, and after a minute or so I felt a kick or a punch. This was the first time I ever felt it from the outside. I contemplated waking Garett up but I figured he wouldn't remember it in the morning anyway. Good thing Mr. Anders was still kicking in the morning so Garett felt him then. This whole week I think he has been saying "UTERUS PUNCH!!!!!" over and over and then repeatedly punches or kicks me. I should respond with "BABY PUNCH!!!" and punch my stomach....but that kind of parenting is most likely frowned upon these days and I would still end up being punched. Plus Andersen would probably retaliate by giving me horrendous stretch marks. That is my one true fear about pregnancy (aside from complications or stuff like that). They say that there is no real way to prevent them. But I'll be darned if I don't try. I put this special collagen/elastin lotion on everyday morning and night, I drink a lot of water and I am gentle with my chest and belly skin. I also have vitamin E oil that I used to put on my knee surgery scars to help them fade. So if a mark does pop up it will be drowned in vitamin E! We shall see if any of this does anything. Like I said I have to try so I can say I put up a good fight : )

I think that pregnancy has been the best motivation to stay/get fit. I am determined to exercise regularly and eat healthier food. So far I've been pretty good. I haven't had any real cravings yet, no weird food combinations sound good to me (my old roommate Krista says that is because I already eat weird food...excuse me but my whole wheat macaroni, relish and red onion salad is not weird....it's delicious!). I have also found that the days I exercise I have more energy and motivation to actually do things. So I shall continue to exercise, modifying it as I expand : ) I went swimming today. That was fun and funny. Funny because I've outgrown my swimsuits so I had to wear a sport tank top and spandex. Oh well. The pool felt really good, my body appreciated it. I just like being in the water; it's a good feeling.


Wednesday, February 15, 2012

{valentine's day}

Garett took the reins on this one and was in charge of the plans for the evening. We both got dressed up and went to.......Texas Roadhouse! My honey knows me well. We did the call ahead seating around 4pm and got our name on the list. They said it would be about a 75 minute wait, which was fine because it was the one up in Lehi. We couldn't even get through to the one in Provo the lines were so busy. So I finished getting ready and we left the house around 5pm and drove the 20 minutes to Lehi. When we walked in it was so packed! People were everywhere, inside and outside. It took us a couple of minutes to push our way to the check-in desk and when we checked in they said it would be about five to fifteen minutes. It turned out to be less and we were in our seats within five minutes of walking in. Perfect timing! Then as we are sitting in awe of our good luck the waitress tells us about the Valentine's Day special. It had us hook, line and sinker. We shared a blooming onion and a half rack of ribs for an appetizer, then we were served our salads. Oh! and we also chowed down on a couple baskets of their amazing rolls! Then our meals come out and I'm thinking "holy moly I already ate two meals worth of food!" We both got the BBQ chicken and ribs combo, me with a side of chili and Garett with a side of loaded mashed potatoes. We both had a few bites and were done. But that means leftovers today!!!! We have a half rack of ribs, two chicken breasts, potatoes, chili, the other half of the blooming onion and a couple of rolls to feed us tonight! Hallelujah!

While we were waiting for our food Garett and I exchanged gifts. Both were kind of homemade so we spent a lot of time at Hobby Lobby (my new favorite store). It was a challenge working on these gifts when we live in limited square footage. He worked in the kitchen and I worked in the bedroom. It was pretty hilarious. If he wanted to come into the bedroom he'd wander around with his eyes closed and me shouting "No looking!!!". We also have limited supplies like scissors, tape and glue, so we were constantly meeting in the hall to hand them off to each other. But all of the secrecy was worth it. All afternoon Garett was all grins and kept saying how proud he was of his gift, making me more and more curious! He apparently used all of his creative juices on this one. And it was super creative! He bought a frame and letters on sale at Hobby Lobby, took some scrapbook paper and a couple of our wedding photos and made the beautiful creation you see here.

My gift was homemade as well. We had downloaded all of our texts into Excel awhile ago. And I finally ordered some wedding pictures last month. So I decided to make a scrapbook of our texts and wedding pictures. He really liked it! I took a picture of a couple of the pages. Because it was so hard to work on this with him home all the time I only was able to get two month's worth of texts done. This will definitely be a project that I keep working on....which I can now work on in the open since it is no longer a surprise!






After dinner I was so incredibly full. This baby is squishing my stomach! We decided to actually take a baby bump picture......finally. So this is me at 20 weeks.....mind you, some of that belly may be a food baby : )

Two hours after dinner I could finally eat some of the chocolates Garett got me. They are my favorite! They are the dark chocolate blueberry acia and the dark chocolate pomegranate ones from Costco. So delicious! Thank goodness for the gym because I have eaten a lot. 

I have spent most of my teenage/adult life wanting to see the number on the scale go down. What woman doesn't?! But now it is hard switching my brain to realize that it is okay for the scale to go up a pound or two now and then....as long as I keep the weight gain to the belly region haha. 

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

{first ultrasound}

Yesterday we had our first ultrasound! Our doctor is Dr. Anderson in Payson, UT. He's a really awesome guy....he had me laughing out loud a few times during the appointment. Right before he gelled me up for the ultrasound he waves his hand in front of me and says "This was the first ultrasound....and it was even digital." Bawhaha....I thought it was pretty funny. Then he started probing around my belly; that was crazy. I could see an actual baby! I don't know what I was expecting to see...but it was so developed; the doctor didn't need to point everything out because I could tell what most of it was.

We first saw the profile of the baby. Dr. Anderson was trying to get a "cute baby face picture" but the baby's hands were in the way; Anderson said that it must be a boy because it was picking it's nose the whole time. Haha. He said that's how you can tell the difference between a boy and a girl.....boy, I've had it wrong this whole time.... ; ) Then randomly he said "Man that'll prove to be expensive!"; I'm thinking crap what's wrong and he points out a big black void in the baby.....the stomach. Apparently our baby has a pretty big stomach; Anderson compared it to a black hole haha. It makes sense since both Garett and I have endless vortexes for stomachs. I am pretty sure our biggest expense in this life will be the grocery bill.

After we saw the stomach he showed us the heart! That little thing was beating up a storm! It was amazing to see. Then we continued down the body and he froze the image and turned to me and said "Now I'm going to use some pretty heavy anatomical terms here so bear with me." He turns to the picture (the same one that is below) and pointed to the top and said "This is the right knee" then to the bottom and said "This is the left knee" and finally to the middle and said "And this is the weenie." He said that there is no doubt as to what gender this baby is! So we are having a BOY!




Thursday, December 8, 2011

{Oh baby....}

Yes ladies and gents.....we be having a baby! Crazy?! I think it is; but it is also wonderful! We are super excited for this little tyke and I'm already planning the nursery and have my list of names going. My guess is that it is going to be a boy....we shall see.

Number 1 picks:
Boy: Andersen, Darren, Aden, Camden,
Girls: Paycen, Raegen, Emersen (Emmy), Madysen

Notice the "en" theme....kind of what we were going for. Ahhh....this is so exciting!! We are going to be parents! I honestly don't think that is has really hit either of us yet. One thing that has hit me is the nauseous feeling all the time. For awhile I've been living off of saltines, ginger snaps and ginger ale. The other day we were at Wal-Mart and I saw this super cute onesie so we bought it and I clothed my bottle of ginger ale with it. I think he is cute.....hopefully our baby has arms and legs.....and a head.


Other than the baby, we are focusing on moving down to Utah here soon. We have been packing and I swear it's a never ending process. It'll eventually get done.